Our Team
National Staff
SCHOOLS COORDINATORS
Our Board
National Staff
Tabby Besley
Managing Director
She / Her
Tabby is a Pākehā queer femme. She has been working in rainbow communities since she was 15 and founded InsideOUT in 2012 with a passion for making Aotearoa a better place for rainbow rangatahi. Tabby has a degree in Counselling and Addictions and alongside her role with us works part-time as a counsellor for our rainbow communities
Atirau Whakataka
Kaihāpai Takatāpui
They / Them / ia
Atirau is a mokopuna of Ngāi Tāmanuhiri, Rongowhakaata & Ngāti Porou of te Tairāwhiti (East Coast). They are a kaiako of te reo Māori utilising creative approaches to (re)awaken the language of this whenua within the hearts and minds of all who have a desire to learn. Their mahi with Kōaro InsideOUT will go towards supporting, affirming and celebrating rangatahi takatāpui+ within Kura Kaupapa and the development and delivery of our training to kaupapa Māori services.
Rosie Leadbitter
Workplace Services Development Lead
She / Her
Rosie is a Pākehā queer femme with English, Irish and Scottish ancestry who was lucky enough to grow up in the hills of Ngaio in Te Whanganui-a-Tara. She studied sociology and public health in Ōtepoti. She is passionate about work that focuses on the stories that people inherit about identity, and how these inform how people engage with the world and themselves. She enjoys reading and watching all sorts of queer stuff, doing karaoke with mates and being near any kind of water!
Emmett
Workplace Services Delivery Lead
They / Them
Emmett is a Pākehā (gender)queer, educator, and librarian-in-progress from the Manawatū. Their work with InsideOUT allows them to bring their together their passions for the rainbow community, helping people learn new things, and tikkun olam (“repairing the world”)
Riwhi Kenny
Volunteer and Community Engagement Coordinator
Ia / He / Him
Riwhi is a takatāpui lesbian who has whakapapa to Kai Tahu and Te Ātiawa. Before this role, he had been volunteering with InsideOUT Kōaro for 5 years. He’s passionate about mental health, peer support, and decolonisation. When not working or studying Kaitiakitanga (Māori Resource Management) and Anthropology at Vic, he can usually be found playing DND, designing his own TTRPGs, or obsessing over wetlands.
June Stephens
Communications Coordinator
They / Them
June is a Pākehā, disabled nonbinary person who grew up and lives in Te Whanganui-a-tara. They have volunteered with InsideOUT at Shift Hui since 2018, and have a background in illustration, graphic design, as well as teaching rangatahi. They are passionate about making queer spaces accessible, and helping young people to have the safety and freedom they deserve. In their free time, June loves spending time in the garden, playing cosy games, and creating things, especially printmaking, painting, and sewing.
Red
Funding and Finance Coordinator
He / Him / Dia
Red is an Indonesian trans guy based in Te Awa Kairangi ki Uta. With a background in hospitality, he started as a volunteer with InsideOUT before further pursuing work for rainbow community development. He is driven to contribute to a future that would benefit their younger queer self. Aside from an interest in great food and coffee, they are also a newbie drummer and budding lifter. Outside of work or the gym, you’ll find him supporting local bands and musicians.
Ruataupare Russell
Kaitautoko Takatāpui Kura Kaupapa
She / They
Ko Ngāti Porou, Te Whānau-a-Apanui me Ngāi Tahu ōku iwi. Tokotoru āku tamariki who are the coolest humans. As a child, I wanted to be like Eliza from Wild Thornberry’s. As an adult, my whānau and I reside in our motorhome and it has been brought to my attention that I am more like Nigel. I am deeply passionate about te ao Māori, kaupapa Māori, decolonisation and social justice. My whānau can be found traveling the motu to attend kura reo and anything related to our passions. I’m excited to be working alongside kura kaupapa to support rangatahi takatāpui.
Dando
Respectful Relationships Coordinator
They / Them
Dando is a queer Pākehā registered Social Worker who wears many professional hats. They are deeply passionate about queer liberation, supporting survivors of harm, decolonisation and social justice in general. They love digital painting and spending time with their daughter, partner, sister and their cats!
Dando is currently on parental leave until March 2025. Please contact tabby@insideout.org.nz in their stead.
Jaz Alexander
Training Coordinator
They / Them
Jaz is a queer pākehā based in Te Whanganui-a-Tara. With a background in sociology & gender studies, their mahi intertwines with their passions of interrupting social injustice, emboldening queer liberation, and fostering radical harm reduction. Jaz was born & raised in Te Waiharakeke and is at their best when dancing, spending time with nature, or connecting with their niblings. Jaz has worked as an education facilitator for almost 5 years delivering advocacy and education for rainbow communities across Aotearoa and is proudly tangata tiriti with a core focus on decolonisation mahi. They also love tattoos, beech forests, mid-century interiors, fashion and drag performance.
SAVIIEy NUA
Pacific Rainbow Competency Coordinator
She / Her
Saviiey is a Fa’afafine who has been involved in many youth development, education, and performing arts initiatives. She is a massive advocate for the Māori and Pasifika Rainbow community of Porirua. Saviiey is the current recipient of the Aniva Arts Residency through Creative NZ and is also the Chairman of Ngā Uri o Whiti Te Rā Mai Le Moana Trust. She holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Māori Performing Arts and Primary Education through Te Wānanga o Raukawa, and a Master’s in Education through Victoria University.
Meihana Pōtiki-Grayling
Shift Hui Coordinator
They / Them
Meihana is a takatāpui (Kāi Tahu and Kati Mamoe), non-binary person who is passionate about working within the queer community as co-chair for Dunedin Pride and advocating for LGBTQIA+ rangatahi. Originally from Kāpiti, they moved to Ōtepoti in 2018 for University and loved it so much they never left. Meihana enjoys curling up on the couch with their cat and a book or some crochet (usually watching Grey’s Anatomy or Taskmaster), as well as exploring the wonderful nature Aotearoa has to offer!
Alex Ker
Resource and Consultation Support
He / Him
Alex has been involved with InsideOUT since 2014 as a volunteer, board member and facilitator, and now supports the organisation’s resource development. He is currently studying towards his PhD and has worked on various community-based studies on improving the health and wellbeing of queer and trans communities in Aotearoa.
Hannah Darling
School Campaigns Coordinator
She / Her
Hannah is a Pākehā Libra lesbian, living and loving in Te Whanganui-a-Tara. She is a parent and step parent to 4 tamariki and 1 cat and has a gorgeous wife, Em. Working for the rainbow community is her absolute passion. When not advocating for queer youth, she is donning a glitter moustache as a cabaret and drag producer and performer.
Regional Schools Coordinators
Kirsty Harnden
Te Tai Tokerau / Northland Schools Coordinator
She / They
Kirsty is originally from Scotland, grew up in Ireland, and now calls Paihia home. She lives with her gorgeous son, two cats, and too many house plants to count! She has a background in youth work and is passionate about mental health awareness. She loves to be creative, read, write poetry, and enjoys aerial yoga and swimming.
Sisifa Lui
Tāmaki Makaurau (North + West) Schools Coordinator
She / Her
Mālō e lelei. I hail from the beautiful islands of Tonga, Rotuma and Fiji. I am a proud young queer woman of Te Moana-nui-a-kiwa. My upbringing in Tongatapu, and my migration to Aotearoa, continues to inspire my passion for serving Māori and Pasifika communities. It is this same passion which encourages me to work, volunteer my time, and learn from a range of different spaces. I love to dance, sing, perform, as well as write. If you couldn’t tell, I love the arts. The arts allow me to express, explore my identity and nostalgia. I am a graduate of Te Wananga Aronui o Tāmaki Makaurau (AUT) with a Bachelor of Arts double majoring in Social Sciences, and Criminology. I have a strong background in tertiary student politics and am a strong advocate for pasifika youth and the arts. Driven by a passion for intersectionality, I celebrate the unique beauty of each person’s diverse experiences.
Danae
Te Moana-a-Toi / Bay of Plenty Schools Coordinator
She / Her / They / Them / Ia
Danae is a queer, neurodivergent Pākeha person living in the Mataatua rohe on whenua raupatu of Ngāti Awa. Their one true love is eke ngaru (surfing) and they’re dedicated to making surfing accessible. They have a diverse work history including reo Māori broadcasting on iwi radio, flying aeroplanes, teaching te reo Māori to fellow disabled folk, Parliamentary politics and pūtaiao outreach with schools and marae around Te Ika a Māui. They are happiest on the waves, in the air or at home playing video games while their dogs wonder why they’re not receiving Danae’s undivided attention!
Rachel Kuysten
Waikato Schools Coordinator
She / Her
Originally from Tokoroa, Rachel is a disabled, queer femme who is tangata tiriti. She currently resides in Kirikiriroa with her two fur babies. Whilst facilitating the QSA at her kura for the past five years, she has been sent that English teacher meme many a time. As a passionate social justice advocate and nerd at heart, she is taking a break from secondary teaching this year to complete her Masters in Disability and Inclusion Studies, and is simultaneously really excited to get stuck into her new role here as the Waikato Schools Coordinator. In her spare time, she loves getting lost in a good story, undertaking creative projects, and spending time with loved ones.
Dando
Taranaki Schools Coordinator
They / Them
Dando is a queer Pākehā registered Social Worker who wears many professional hats. They are deeply passionate about queer liberation, supporting survivors of harm, decolonisation and social justice in general. They love digital painting and spending time with their daughter, partner, sister and their cats!
Dando is currently on parental leave until March 2025. Please contact tabby@insideout.org.nz in their stead.
Zenica Mann
Whanganui Schools Coordinator
She / They
Zenica (Ngāti Kahu), or Zen, was once a proud Aucklander but has been lovingly humbled after moving to Whanganui a few years ago! Zen is a visual artist and a parent to a very cool small human, and has particular interest in decolonisation, queer liberation, youth development and support, and suicide prevention. Despite the nickname, Zen is often zero chill and all enthusiasm, especially when it comes to… well, most things really. Aroha mai, aroha atu!
Jordan Walker
Te Tairāwhiti Schools Coordinator
They / Them
Jordan hails from the mighty East Coast, Te Tairāwhiti and identifies as takatāpui. They have a strong background in the Arts sector in Aotearoa, and are a strong advocate for the arts, for gender diverse communities and for low-income whānau. A Massey University graduate, Jordan is also a social anthropologist with research focused on indigenizing value in the arts, and the work economy at large. This research ties into their advocacy for low income whānau and communities; championing the value of their time by pushing for pay equity and fair treatment, while also amplifying the value of the arts for the wellbeing of communities.
Jules Collinson
Manawatū Schools Coordinator
He / They
Jules is a Trans-Masc Nonbinary performer, producer and artist. Jules has lived all over Aotearoa (and some of Australia) and is now based in Manawatū. They have a BA in Theatre and film and are passionate about intersectional representation in media and the arts especially under the rainbow and trans umbrellas. He likes to use theatre, film and comedy to create bridges of understanding to convey, represent and maybe translate queer and neurodiverse experiences. Jules likes to play music, video games and craft/draw when free as well as being an avid baker.
Val Little
Te Upoko o Te Ika Schools Coordinator
She / Her
Val is a first generation tauiwi of Scottish and Welsh heritage, who has been active in the queer spaces in Aotearoa since the late 1980s. She has lived through significant social and legislative changes for queer people and brings a wealth of experience and passion for social justice, intergenerational knowledge sharing and activism. She lives in Paekākāriki with her wife and fur babies. Her hobbies include collecting vinyl records and DJing with them and anything to do with the outdoors – including learning to surf.
Aroha
Te Tau Ihu o Te Waka-a-Māui Schools Coordinator
She / Her
Aroha (Ngāti Maru, Ngāti Pūkenga, Ngāti Raukawa) is motivated to help improve the wellbeing of people in her community. Currently finishing a Health Science degree and working for InsideOUT, she is excited to be a part of creating spaces and environments where Rainbow Rangatahi are listened to and supported.
Mason
Waitaha / Canterbury Schools Coordinator
They / Them
Mason is a non-binary queer pākehā registered social worker. Born and raised in Ōtautahi, they love Te Waipounamu and photographing nature that catches their eye around the motu. You will often find them wherever the animals are in any given situation or reading a good book cuddled up with their cat and two dogs. They are passionate about intersectionality and the beauty that each person’s diverse and interconnected identity brings to the world.
Lara
Waitaha / Canterbury Schools Coordinator
She / Her
Lara is a Two-spirit person, originally from Seattle, Washington, USA, though she grew up in the Rocky Mountains of Montana. She spent her childhood summers fancy dancing at powwows across Montana. In 2003 she moved across the world to Australia, later settling in Aotearoa in 2010. She followed in her sister’s footsteps and completed a Masters of Social Work (Applied) in 2016, but also has a teaching degree, and a post grad in German language and literature. When she started her professional life, she went into youth work, inspired by the amazing work her mother did with young people while she was growing up. She now lives by the sea, has have five cats (one accidentally), two parrots, and one husband! On her days off she can be found tending to her garden…on Stardew Valley, playing a board or card game, reading a book, or listening to a podcast in the spa.
Meihana Pōtiki-Grayling
Ōtākou + Murihiku Schools Coordinator
They / Them
Meihana is a takatāpui (Kāi Tahu and Kati Mamoe), non-binary person who is passionate about working within the queer community as co-chair for Dunedin Pride and advocating for LGBTQIA+ rangatahi. Originally from Kāpiti, they moved to Ōtepoti in 2018 for University and loved it so much they never left. Meihana enjoys curling up on the couch with their cat and a book or some crochet (usually watching Grey’s Anatomy or Taskmaster), as well as exploring the wonderful nature Aotearoa has to offer!
Our Board
Brock Stobbs
Co-Chairperson
He / Him
Brock is a queer Pākehā and a Scorpio. Based in Te Awakairangi, they have been on the Board since 2019, joining because of their passion for supporting rainbow communities and interest in governance. Outside of InsideOUT, Brock works as a policy analyst in the public sector and enjoys watching films, playing D&D, and losing at quiz nights.
Awhi Marshall
Co-Chairperson
She / They
Awhi is a takatāpui student at the University of Auckland from Ngāti Pikiao and Ngāti Mahuta, studying Biomedical Engineering and Law. She is passionate about making society fairer, more just, and a better place for us all to belong to, through advocating for change at whatever level she can.
Kiefer Hunt
Treasurer
He / Him
Kiefer is a queer trans man from Te Whanganui-a-Tara. He is Pākehā with ancestral roots in England, Scotland, Ireland, Wales, and India. He is currently studying in Te Papaioea to become a veterinarian. Outside of university, Kiefer enjoys reading, video games, ancestry research, and spending time with his dog
Kay
Trustee
Any pronouns with respect
Kay is a Pākehā queer person from Pōneke. They currently work as an assistant librarian, and are studying library and information studies with Open Polytechnic. Some fun facts about them are that they are a vegan and an Aries!
Miia van Beusekom
Trustee
She / Her
Miia is a Pākehā queer trans woman, and proud parent of two young children. She joined the Board in 2020, and has almost a decade of experience working in social services. In her spare time she volunteers with her local football club, and generally enjoys spending time with friends.
Jack Ruddenklau
Trustee
He / Him / Ia
Jack grew up on a farm in Murihiku (Southland) but now lives in Ōtepoti. He has whakapapa to Ngāti Raukawa and Ngāti Tukorehe. Identifying as takatāpui, Jack is a passionate advocate for inclusivity. He has experience in Healthcare, Technology, Professional Services, Start-Ups, Local Government and Community Development. Jack is in his final year at Ōtākou Whakaihu Waka (the University of Otago), studying towards a Bachelor of Arts and Commerce. His whānau is his most cherished taonga in life.
Nat McDonald
Trustee
They / Them
Nat is a transmasculine queer person with a proud history of rainbow advocacy and mahi in community spaces. Their day job is as a lawyer in the human rights sphere. Outside of work, Nat is captain of their social netball team, passionate Chelsea WFC supporter, and enjoys a good board game or five.
Adriana Cleghorn
Trustee
She / They
Adriana is a Pākehā queer person from Waihōpai. Prior to joining the Board, she has been a volunteer with InsideOUT Kōaro for 3 years. They relish the skills and experience their work has given her to support and encourage rainbow rangatahi to be their best selves. They can often be found tinkering with electronics, listening to music, and advocating for adequate access to rainbow healthcare throughout the motu.
Ilana Seager van Dyk
Executive Advisor
She/Her
Ilana is a queer woman based in Te Whanganui-a-Tara. She is a clinical psychologist and senior lecturer at Massey University, where she trains the next generation of mental health providers in Rainbow-affirming care. As director of Massey’s PRIDE lab, Ilana’s research examines Rainbow mental health and ways to amplify positive queer experiences in society and in mental health settings.