For Youth and Whānau
PROJECTS + RESOURCES FOR YOUTH AND WHĀNAU
It can be hard being a young person with a diverse gender or sexuality, or variations in sex characteristics. Here are some resources and places you can get support throughout Aotearoa.
If you’re supporting a rainbow loved one, you may also wish to learn more about their identities and ways to support them.
More Than Four
A video resource from InsideOUT, exploring the identities and experiences of and beyond ‘LGBT’ identities.
Hearing from a wide range of people within the rainbow community: asexual, aromantic, intersex, non-binary, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, takatāpui, fa’afafine, akava’ine, queer parents and people who identify as both Māori, Pasifika or Asian and queer.
Making Schools Safer
InsideOUT’s resource book that provides an understanding of experiences of trans and gender diverse youth often face at their schools, and provides tips for whānau and counsellors.
Professional Development Training
InsideOUT offers staff training to primary, intermediate and secondary schools which is recommended for every school. However, these can especially be a huge help when a trans or gender diverse child is in the school community as we can answer the staff’s questions and advise them on how to best support any rainbow students or families in their school. Email firstname.lastname@example.org to learn more.
InsideOUT runs a radio show, SpeakOUT – with Wellington Access Radio on 106.1FM, playing live on Wednesday 6pm every fortnight. Speak Out covers local and international news and events, interviews and discussion, music by LGBTQIA+ artists, reviews, live performances and more. Speak OUT is also uploaded online as a podcast that you can listen to here: Spotify, Podbean, Apple Music.
Shift is our national hui (gathering) for rainbow young people! Over 100 young people join us every April for a weekend of making connections, learning about different issues facing the rainbow community, taking part in workshops and activities and gaining new skills and knowledge to help them set up and/or sustain a support group in their schools and communities. We want to see a shift in the dominant culture and see Aotearoa New Zealand as a safe place for everyone, regardless of their sex, sexuality or gender. Shift 2022 is expected to take place at Horouta Marae in Porirua, for young people aged 15-20 in April. Applications typically open in February.
“Coming from a smaller town, I was one of the only people I knew in the rainbow community. It makes everything a lot less lonely, and gives one hope for the future.” – Shift Hui attendant
InsideOUT has developed a video resource in the importance of pronouns. Sharing your pronouns and asking for someone else’s is an easy way to signal to the person you’re talking to that you aren’t assuming what their gender identity is, or how they wish to be referred to. This is really important because every trans and gender diverse person’s journey is different. While some people may take steps to transition socially, legally and/or medically, others may not. You can therefore not know what someone’s gender identity is just by looking at them, knowing their name or hearing their voice.
A collaborative project between InsideOUT & rainbow organisations across Aotearoa to provide guidance and resources for parents, family and whānau of rainbow young people. Visit be-there.nz
Out on the Shelves
Out on the Shelves is an online resource that lists books with rainbow themes and characters, with the aim of supporting rainbow young people to find stories that represent their identities in positive and affirming ways. Visit outontheshelves.insideout.org.nz
A collection of rainbow posters from InsideOUT and other rainbow organisations across Aotearoa.